Quoted from Yahoo Website: Love + Sex , 8 January 2010
It is an interesting topic and I agreed so much to the Author. It seemed there are so many things we should not say to bf, but we are unaware it. Let's look at it.
1) "My ex did the exact same thing!"
Well, it is not a good try..please keep it to yourself.. Men hate they are being compared to your ex.. Don't hurt his esteem or challenge his tolerance!
2) "Helen's pregnant ... Shhhh"
Gossip again.. burden him with more secret? He will feel 'you wanna get me into trouble?"
Since this is none of his business, why need wana share with him?
3) "When we're married/have kids..."
If you have a bf same as mine, who loves his freedom. Please don't scare your beloved with all these 'dreams'. They will run immediately once they know.
4) "I just farted"
Nothing wrong with farted, every human does that. Right? Admit generously. Your men will like your honesty more than your pretends.
5) "I'm fine" or "Never mind"
When both of us come to an upset discussion, it really caused me speechless or don't feel like to talk. Indeed, this is the regular case i always did to him. Although i spoke "Is OK", "Forget about it", "Nothing serious", but all these still crossed my mind. It is pretty hard to control. Hope I can have better improvement on this.
6) "Do you think she's pretty?"
Haha, this is the most stupid question for me.
If your bf answer "Yes", he will be in disaster.
If he answer "No", you will feel why he taste different from you.
If he is sensitive to the danger, he will make you believe he has a right sense with you, at the same time you are being pursuaded "you're the best" in his mind.
Since there is no right or wrong in answering, why wanna bother him with such stupid question?
7) "I'll try anything once"
Same opinion as the Author..
Do you really mean it?
8) "Are you sure you're okay?"
Let him have his space. Keep on asking for a definite answer will only make him feel you are so noisy and troublesome. He just doesn't want worry another person.
9) "I hate my thighs"
Sometimes i did dislike my thighs because it made me look fat in certain clothing. Why wanna bother how other people look at me? When the time he chosen me, he must had a closer look at my body. Don't make him feel he has a wrong selection on you. Of course he can't deny that if he ever comment my figure. Try to think it cheerfully, indeed his comment made me have a better knowledge on how to make myself wear pretty.
But..A man who care your outlook more than your inner beauty, why we need him?
10) "I hate your mom"
This is unforgivable. No matter how much you dislike his mum, that's the war between you and her. Don't sandwich him between the women's war. If he has an unreasonable mum, try to avoid have a 'direct' deal. Every man wants a good wife cum filial daughter-in-law. So, what we can do? Try our best to fulfill them.
Babe, Good luck to you!
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